How Do You Help Someone Figure Out Their Passion?

LIN-Whatdo youwant
Facebook
Twitter
LinkedIn
Email
Print

This week’s question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

I’m an entrepreneur, and my partner is not. I want to build, grow, and see things. He has working class mindset, always working for someone else. But he’s intrigued by everything I’m doing, and he’s open to it.

I feel like we’re going in different directions. When I ask him what he wants, he always says, “I don’t know.” He’s trying to figure that out. I say, “You have to go try things. Why don’t you go for that dream job? Why don’t you talk to people?”

Is that the right approach? How can I help him find his passion? How can we see if we’re on the same page or create a direction? He wants to fit into my life of freedom, but I want him to have his own passions and dreams.

I would sit down, have a conversation and say, “Let’s take a week and decide what we want for ourselves in life.”

Take a week, write down everything you want in your life…and have him do the same.

Then, after the week, come back together and compare notes. See where you are.

Talk about, “What do we want together?” Create a vision for what you guys want together. Break it down to, “Okay, how are we going to create this in our life, so that you get what you want individually, I get what I want individually, and we both get what we want together? And then we make it work.”

That will determine the next steps.

It’s important that you both have the freedom to really say, truthfully, what you want. If you’re hiding something—or you think your partner would be offended or might not want the same thing—or if you’re like, “That won’t work”… you might have a codependency thing going on, where he’s letting you be the leader.

But that never works out very well.

No matter what the outcome is, you have to give each other permission that you’ll be 100% honest about what you want.

Here’s another thing. When someone keeps saying, “I don’t know,” they’re actually giving their brain a command to NOT give them the answer.

Our brain is extraordinarily resourceful,
if we learn how to use it.

Instead of saying, “I don’t know,” he could start saying, ”I know it’s coming. I know the answer is coming. I give myself permission to know what it is.”

Here’s the truth, which I deeply believe:

Humans are not the one species on the planet that was born with no direction. We all have a purpose and a direction. We were just taught to ignore it during childhood (for whatever reason), so that we could survive.

Your partner just needs to start talking. His self talk needs to change a bit. Give him the space to come up with what he wants.

Don’t pressure him in any way. Let him write down whatever he knows that he wants, because you can only start where you are. He just needs permission.

Save

ARE YOU READY TO STOP ACCEPTING YOUR CURRENT LIMITATIONS AS TRUTH?

I’ve seen entrepreneurs go from $5,000 monthly to $60,000 in just 90 days. The difference? A fundamental shift in belief.

The Becoming 12X Process isn’t about temporary motivation – it’s about transforming your relationship with success itself. The universe has already provided everything you need. The only obstacle is what’s happening in your mind.

During our 3-day Atlanta experience, you’ll dismantle the subconscious programming capping your potential and learn to work with universal laws instead of against them.

You were born for far more than you’re currently experiencing.

**The question is: Are you ready for extraordinary transformation?

Secure your spot with us on June 15-17, 2025! CLICK HERE

P.S. Whenever you’re ready… here are 2 ways we can help you grow YOUR business:

  • The Successful Mind Podcast. Each week, we drop cutting edge information and strategies relating to success mindset, leadership, wealth creation, and relationships.
  • Join other like-minded small business owners in our Business Transformation Facebook Group! Allow us to be a place to share ideas, get advice, and meet others who value truth and growth!

Grab your ticket now before our Super Early Bird Pricing expires on July 2nd!

WE'RE BACK!

Live and In-Person This June!

Take advantage of our Super Super Early Bird Pricing
and lock in your seat!

What you can expect to learn during this 3 day event:

🎉** Black Friday Alert: Transform Your Money Mindset for Just $97!**

This weekend only, get 93% off David Neagle’s most transformative courses:

Normally $1,491, yours now for just $97!

🔥 Act Fast: This Black Friday deal ends soon!

Now Enrolling!

THE ELITE MIND

In this transformative program, you will:

With this program, you’ll experience a quantum leap in your business, propelling you towards extraordinary achievements and unparalleled success.

We start November 18th – do you want in?

If you’re ready to take ownership over your destiny and start living life on your own terms, this course will provide the step-by-step framework you need.

The time for excuses and playing small is over.

Are you ready to break through your limitations, gain unstoppable confidence, and claim the life you desire?

Then take the first step by joining 6 Steps to Personal Freedom right now.

Grab your ticket now before our Super Early Bird Pricing expires on July 2nd!

Program start date is October 9, 2023