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How to stop yourself from ruining everything


This week’s question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David!

I have followed you for awhile now and I am blown away. Your teachings allowed me to see an opportunity that was right in front of me for a LONG time. This opportunity has already put an additional $50,000 in my bank account. But now that I have the income I am feeling the pull of my psycho-cybernetic setting and I can feel resistance creeping in. I am so worried and scared that I am going to sabotage this opportunity and all the new income it brings- how can I stop it?

Neagle Code Answer

Hi and thanks for your question.

First of all, CONGRATS on the extra $50,000.00 in income. That’s fantastic, and something I enjoy watching my private clients discover for themselves as well.

The key thing to remember is that you CAN stop yourself from breaking down and sabotaging yourself. Immediately stop saying that you can’t.

The first step is to become aware of what beliefs are causing the worry.

Ask yourself why you are feeling worried and scared. From that answer, keep asking questions until you feel like you’ve hit the root issue. This will shine the light on the belief that’s allowing fear, worry and doubt to creep in.

Let the worst-case scenario play out.

Once a light is shined on the fear, you can respond to it.

For example, if you discover that your worry is coming from a place of what other people will think of you if you ruin everything, you can now address that fear for what it is.

If you shine the light on it and realize that your fear is coming from a place of wanting love and acceptance from other people, you can bring in the truth to remind yourself that what people think of you has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them.

This awareness helps neutralize the worry, because you can see it for what it is and understand your next area of growth. In the above instance, it would be strengthening your self-esteem so that you stop fearing judgment from others.



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